Love ?

The world's most famous word. The world's most mentioned word. Love. How about the meaning of it? How many people can describe what love is? It might be interesting to describe and define love, the world's most metaphysical object. Something we usually not to give a damn about describing it, but just to feel it. Anyway, February is the month of love! Let's just to be frank about love to celebrate it!

Love makes us alive.

"I have always loved you, and you know that. Ever since I was fifteen years old, when we laid under the trees, learning and growing in love. I have tried to let you go and find someone that moves me more than you, but no one can beat the way you make me feel. Being around you lifts me up - not only do I feel fifteen again, but you make me feel like I couldn’t be anyone better but the person I am when I am with you."- Le Love

Yes, baby. Your love makes me alive, 200% more alive than before. Remember how we talk to each other about everything? There was a kind of relief there. To put my head over your chest, there was a fresh air I breathed. By just smiling and holding my hand, I was exceedingly happy to be right next to you. Hopes were flying free beyond our heads when we were so in love. We were so not care about what was ahead, busy making each other happy effortlessly.

"From the way you smile , to the way you look, you capture me unlike no other. From the first hello
Yeah, that's all it took and certainly we had each other. And I won't leave you. Always be true.
One plus one, two for life, over and over again.
So, don't ever think I need more.. I've got the one to live for. No one else will do, and
I'm telling you just put your heart in my hands. Promise it won't get broken , we'll never forget this moment.  It will stay brand new, 'Cause I'll love you over and over again." - Nathan Sykes


Love scares us.

As a ordinary human being, naturally we want to own something or someone we love entirely. Especially when it has given us enormous happiness, like ultimate level of happiness this tiny world could ever have. One huge consequences of loving someone, is we don't want to lose him/her. We scared of goodbye, of being left and alone. Selfish, indeed. Yet we can't deny nor run from it.The harder we love, the bigger we scare.

Yes honey. I'm scared. Scared to death of losing you even if it's just one minute. It grows bigger along with my feeling for you. And everyday I felt like I already lost you. It was undeniable. You kept on making me feel scared by going to another direction that we both hate. 

"When two souls fall in love, there is nothing else but the yearning to be close to the other. The presence that is felt through a hand held, a voice heard, or a smile seen. 
Souls do not have calendars or clocks, nor do they understand the notion of time or distance. They only know it feels right to be with another. This is the reason why you miss someone so much when they are not there- even if they are only in the very next room. Your soul only feels their absence- it doesn't realise the separation is temporary" - Lang Leav

"If this is my last night with you. Hold me like I'm more than just a friend. Give me a memory I can use, take me by the hand while we do what lovers do. It matters how this ends 'cause what if I never love again?

I don't need your honesty, it's already in your eyes. And I'm sure my eyes, they speak for me.
No one knows me like you do. And since you're the only one that matters. Tell me who do I run to?" - Adele

Love lies to us. 

I'm a hundred percent sure, there is a part of lying and faking something in order to love someone. First, people tend to lie to please many people whether the fact they don't matter at all. Second, we lie to ourselves about our feeling. How the decision we made not making us happy, but we lie in front of people out there. We cover our face with masks, until we can't differ which one is the real one. Some people tell lies to hurt others, some tell lies to please others.

"…two people, confused as shit as to where they should be and who they should love and none of this means a damn thing because it’s all lies!" - S.L. Jennings

"I loved him more than anything.  I still miss him every day.  What hurts the most is that the man I loved, and what I miss, was never real, it never even existed.  Which also makes it easier in some ways, there is no way back, nothing to mend, nothing in reality to miss, as there wasn't a moment when he wasn't lying.  But I don't get why, and it makes me scream inside.  Now I know that he in fact taunted me, tortured me, enjoyed his powerful and sadistic position, he would tell me I was mad when I questioned why so much did not make sense.  He never loved me. " - experienceproject.com

“who did I think we were.
who did I think
I could make you.

this is the oldest mistake,
to confuse wanting
with magic. silence is the undoing
of every spell, and we are experts
in the unsaid. even now, I forget
to put us in past tense. as if
the air in this city were the same.
as if love is anything like its speaking.” ― Marty McConnell 

  

"You didn’t love her. You just didn’t want to be alone. Or maybe, maybe she was good for your ego. Or maybe she made you feel better about your miserable life, but you didn’t love her, because you don’t destroy the person that you love".- Callie Torres - ‘The Heart of the Matter’