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Selasa, 09 Februari 2016

Love ?

The world's most famous word. The world's most mentioned word. Love. How about the meaning of it? How many people can describe what love is? It might be interesting to describe and define love, the world's most metaphysical object. Something we usually not to give a damn about describing it, but just to feel it. Anyway, February is the month of love! Let's just to be frank about love to celebrate it!

Love makes us alive.

"I have always loved you, and you know that. Ever since I was fifteen years old, when we laid under the trees, learning and growing in love. I have tried to let you go and find someone that moves me more than you, but no one can beat the way you make me feel. Being around you lifts me up - not only do I feel fifteen again, but you make me feel like I couldn’t be anyone better but the person I am when I am with you."- Le Love

Yes, baby. Your love makes me alive, 200% more alive than before. Remember how we talk to each other about everything? There was a kind of relief there. To put my head over your chest, there was a fresh air I breathed. By just smiling and holding my hand, I was exceedingly happy to be right next to you. Hopes were flying free beyond our heads when we were so in love. We were so not care about what was ahead, busy making each other happy effortlessly.

"From the way you smile , to the way you look, you capture me unlike no other. From the first hello
Yeah, that's all it took and certainly we had each other. And I won't leave you. Always be true.
One plus one, two for life, over and over again.
So, don't ever think I need more.. I've got the one to live for. No one else will do, and
I'm telling you just put your heart in my hands. Promise it won't get broken , we'll never forget this moment.  It will stay brand new, 'Cause I'll love you over and over again." - Nathan Sykes



Love scares us.

As a ordinary human being, naturally we want to own something or someone we love entirely. Especially when it has given us enormous happiness, like ultimate level of happiness this tiny world could ever have. One huge consequences of loving someone, is we don't want to lose him/her. We scared of goodbye, of being left and alone. Selfish, indeed. Yet we can't deny nor run from it.The harder we love, the bigger we scare.

Yes honey. I'm scared. Scared to death of losing you even if it's just one minute. It grows bigger along with my feeling for you. And everyday I felt like I already lost you. It was undeniable. You kept on making me feel scared by going to another direction that we both hate. 

"When two souls fall in love, there is nothing else but the yearning to be close to the other. The presence that is felt through a hand held, a voice heard, or a smile seen. 
Souls do not have calendars or clocks, nor do they understand the notion of time or distance. They only know it feels right to be with another. This is the reason why you miss someone so much when they are not there- even if they are only in the very next room. Your soul only feels their absence- it doesn't realise the separation is temporary" - Lang Leav


"If this is my last night with you. Hold me like I'm more than just a friend. Give me a memory I can use, take me by the hand while we do what lovers do. It matters how this ends 'cause what if I never love again?
I don't need your honesty, it's already in your eyes. And I'm sure my eyes, they speak for me.
No one knows me like you do. And since you're the only one that matters. Tell me who do I run to?" - Adele

Love lies to us. 

I'm a hundred percent sure, there is a part of lying and faking something in order to love someone. First, people tend to lie to please many people whether the fact they don't matter at all. Second, we lie to ourselves about our feeling. How the decision we made not making us happy, but we lie in front of people out there. We cover our face with masks, until we can't differ which one is the real one. Some people tell lies to hurt others, some tell lies to please others.

"…two people, confused as shit as to where they should be and who they should love and none of this means a damn thing because it’s all lies!" - S.L. Jennings


"I loved him more than anything.  I still miss him every day.  What hurts the most is that the man I loved, and what I miss, was never real, it never even existed.  Which also makes it easier in some ways, there is no way back, nothing to mend, nothing in reality to miss, as there wasn't a moment when he wasn't lying.  But I don't get why, and it makes me scream inside.  Now I know that he in fact taunted me, tortured me, enjoyed his powerful and sadistic position, he would tell me I was mad when I questioned why so much did not make sense.  He never loved me. " - experienceproject.com

“who did I think we were.
who did I think
I could make you.

this is the oldest mistake,
to confuse wanting
with magic. silence is the undoing
of every spell, and we are experts
in the unsaid. even now, I forget
to put us in past tense. as if
the air in this city were the same.
as if love is anything like its speaking.”
Marty McConnell 
  
"You didn’t love her. You just didn’t want to be alone. Or maybe, maybe she was good for your ego. Or maybe she made you feel better about your miserable life, but you didn’t love her, because you don’t destroy the person that you love".- Callie Torres - ‘The Heart of the Matter’





Sabtu, 15 November 2014

Lessons.

Have you ever seen a romantic soap opera on TV and feel sick about the plot? Have you ever seen girls crying after breaking up with her lover in the public places? Have you ever seen a couple who are having a terrible quarrel and yelling at each other in the public places? 

If one of those answers is yes, you might think that love can be so incredibly wrong and what might be left are the PAIN and HATRED

So, what are we gonna do? We can't just easily walk out or force ourselves to not being in love with someone. It's just clearly impossible, isn't it? What I suggest you to do, my dear readers, is do learn from the experience. Take lessons from every terrible things that bang you in the past.

This time, you can learn from my experience. My personal experience about LOVE which I should say the most frustrating thing ever in this decade of my life. It's like the thing you wanna tell to your children later, so that they will be more prepared in the event that they're in the same position (which I really don't hope so)

So fellass.. Let's begin our lesson. (I'd say these things to my beautiful children if I have later)

"Kid, if someone starts to pay more attention to you or starts flirting with you meanwhile he's still in relationship with someone else, back off and say NO from the beginning. Because he will do it again to you, sooner or later."

"Kid, if you are in the middle of your friend's relationship, just stay quite and do not act or talk to them unless they've finished their problems. Otherwise, you might add another problem"

"Kid, if you get blamed by many people for something you don't do, just be nice to them and let the time reveals all the truth. Because if you're busy listening and clarifying things here and there, it's totally in vain"

"Kid, if someone say bad things to you, don't do the same thing. Because they won't stop"




"Kid, if guys come to you and say they love you,don't be too happy and accept them easily. Take time. Take time as long as you need to convince yourself whether he's the right one. Because a guy who's in love and seems like he wants you very bad,will say enormous sweet things to you. Unfortunately, most of them are just garbage. They just want to get you in their hand first, and they will forget everything they say to you"

"Kid, if you feel like people abandon you, and you feel alone, it's the sign that Allah misses you. He just want to talk to you, so go talk to Him"

"Kid, don't judge people easily based on other's people story. Ask directly to them. Because you might be in their position someday, and it feels HOLY terrible"

End of the lessons.



As Ted said in How I met Your Mother : 

"A word of advice: play along. The more you fight it, the worse it’s gonna get. It’s like when your car slides on ice, you stir into the skid"

"There are a lot of little reasons why the big things in our lives happen"

Sabtu, 10 Mei 2014

The Eleventh of May

Hello Sunday ! 

Just wanna tell you, I currently love a song from Justin Timberlake - Not a Bad Thing. Justin's voice is just so soothing. The lyric is also majestic! The video clips is also hyper romantic! Awwww... 
So I would present this song and my handcraft below to complete our Eleventh of May :)

Thank you for this three. Sorry for this is the only thing I could do. Hope to see you soon is always be my prayer in the morning while we are busy chasing our dreams. Good luck for us!! :))


" So don't act like it's a bad thing to fall in love with me
Cause you might fuck around and find your dreams come true with me
Spend all your time and your money just to find out that my love was free
So don't act like it's a bad thing to fall in love with me, me
It's not a bad thing to fall in love with me, me

Now how about I be the last voice you hear tonight?
And every other night for the rest of the nights that there are
And every morning I just wanna see you staring back at me
'Cause I know that's a good place to start "










Minggu, 02 Maret 2014

Joy dan Benda Bernama Rindu



Pagi itu, ada yang berbeda dari Joy. Senyum dan auranya cerah ceria. Berulang kali ia tertawa kecil memandangi telepon genggamnya. Ada satu nama di layar kecil itu yang membuat matanya berbinar setiap kali ada pesan singkat masuk di handphonenya. Gani. 

Ya, Gani. Lelaki itu telah mengisi hari-hari Joy yang selama ini tak menarik dan membosankan. Walaupun hanya berkomunikasi via telepon, Joy merasa nyaman membicarakan apapun kepada Gani. Mulai mengeluh tentang sinyal yang buruk, rasa kantuk yang menyerang ketika rapat direksi, rencana karir yang disusunnya, dan apapun. 

Dan pagi itu, alasan dari senyum Joy juga Gani. Sosok yang berjarak ribuan kilometer dari kota kecil dimana Joy tinggal, telah menyatakan perasaannya. Gani menemui Joy dan merasa yakin dengannya. Tidak jauh berbeda dengan Joy, Gani mengaku merasa nyaman dengan adanya Joy selama ini. Meski Joy sempat meragu, memikirkan rumitnya keadaan mereka saat ini, terpisah ruang dan waktu yang begitu nyata, namun Gani meyakinkan semua akan baik-baik saja. Dan semua akan bisa berjalan dengan baik. Joy pun mengiyakan, sembari mengucap harap di dalam hati bahwa semuanya memang akan baik-baik saja. 

Sabtu, 16 Maret 2013

I Wanna Be..


Dear, you..

I wanna be.. the first person that pops in your mind when you open your sleepy eyes every morning.

I wanna be.. the first person you remember to call every morning after you open your eyes.

I wanna be.. the person whom you say ‘I MISS YOU’ and ‘I LOVE YOU’ in your call everyday and never get bored hearing of it.

I wanna be.. the person you think to motivate you before you start your days.

I wanna be.. the person you wanna hug when you are stressed out by your overwhelming works.

I wanna be.. the person you wanna sing with in your break time during your busy tasks.

I wanna be.. the person whose tweet is awaited by you everytime you scroll your Twitter timeline.

I wanna be.. the person who you wanna always send text to and the reason why you are smiling whenever you see my name pops out on your phone’s screen.

I wanna be.. the person who you worry about in a heavy windy rain.

I wanna be.. the person who you want to share your day with after all your tiring days with so many fluttered obstacles.

I wanna be.. the person who you want to say ‘Good night’ to and kiss me in the forehead, gently.

I wanna be.. your partner in crime, your childhood bestfriend, your online games playmate, your favorite TV Idol, and your everlasting good looking Disney princess.

I wanna be.. all I wanna be.. is yours.

Jumat, 27 Mei 2011